Desire to be with Friends

Recently I had new friends in my office, while I was discussing about their interest I found one thing in common, they always want to be with their friends. Even I also have that same interest. I started to think why everyone have this in common, the desire to be with friends. When we are with our friends we used to talk a lot, tease each other, some silly fight, watching movies together and looking at girls/boys together. While we are with our friends we forget our world and a new world will be there. In that world no individuality, no ego everything will be common.

While friends are together, everyone will forget about their own problem and enjoy the moments. All are looking for joy and searching for happiness in their life. Because every individual has their own responsibility, problem and commitment. When it comes to a group of friends only the common things will be high. The individuality fades there. Only the things which are common among everyone is spoken there. Some discussion about the old golden days (includes school, college life). That keeps us very happy.

People who have problem in their personal life or professional life they want to free themselves, so they will be thinking about a solution for that problem at that time. Their mind wont be in a clear state to find a solution for the problem at hand. So they want to free themselves. Some will listen to music, watch movies, go for a small tour. Everyone cant do this to clear their minds. Because one may not be interested in Music, Movie or travel. We cant say anyone not interested to be with friends if he/she says that person is mentally affected he/she needs to be rushed to lunatic asylum.

So all prefer to gather with their friends and share everything. Some may share the problem what they were not able to solve. Friends will surely help out in finding the solution or they will create some problem before that your problem wont be big. In one or other friend will encourage you and motivates you to clear your mind and be active in this competitive world. So everyone wants to be with friend forever. Some will make their parents as friends, husband or wife as a friend, even their pet as a friend. In this world we cant say a person is existing without friend.

Ooops... Sorry guys I forgot that I have to meet my friends now. Will meet you all in my next post.